Ladies, if you really want you and your man to have a
fantastic and powerful orgasm, you’re going to need to know how to build up and
develop erotic passion and desire in your partner, with these great foreplay
tips.
1.
Talk
Dirty: Dirty talk is certainly a proven way to get your man geared up for
sex if done correctly. It’s not necessarily with the description of the actions
you plan to DO to HIM, but also how you express that HE is going to make YOU
feel when he touches you, or when he’s inside you, and making you so wet you
might have to remove your panties at work. Describing specific places you are
going to touch, lick, suck, fondle, grab, caress and devour along with how
those activities are going to make each of you FEEL, is the starting point to
creating anticipation and excitement before and during play time.
2.
Create A
Mental Picture Before Sex: Foreplay for both men and women begin in the
mind. For females, they say the brain is the largest erogenous zone. When WE
are excited about the sex, it increases our own sex appeal and confidence,
making us that much more attractive to our partners. Great mental foreplay
could be in TEXTING your partner at various points in the day about what you
can’t WAIT to do to him. Tell him you can’t wait for him to see you naked, and
touching and licking every part of your body. Men are huge visual creatures,
and by creating this mental image in his mind, he’ll be dying with anticipation
for when you get home or the two of you get it on!
3. Scream Sexy: Sexy is not only in how
you dress and present yourself, but it is also a state of mind. To make things
hotter and steamier in the bedroom, you may want to spice things up by adding
stockings, sexy lingerie, peak a boo underwear or undergarments that you can
see ever so slightly under your daytime clothing. Add to that, items that
stimulate all the senses such as sound, taste and smells and you’re have him
infused and inundated with sex from all angles.
Be sure you choose a fragrance on your body that is feminine, lubes and
creams that are edible and music that will help enhance the mood and ambiance
you are looking for.
4. Teasing Through Kissing: If you’re not
a good kisser you may want to do some research & practise on good kissing
skills. But if you are, kissing deeply, passionately and all over his body will
absolutely arouse all his senses. Biting his lip, breathing heavily in his ear
while you passionately place your arms around his neck, back or waist as you
pull him towards you and move your mouth
from his mouth to his neck, chest, kissing down towards his stomach, and of
course stopping in between his legs and paying close attention to his probably
throbbing penis, just begging for attention is a sure fire way to get him
closer to climax.
5.
Take The
Lead, Show Confidence and Control:
Many men have admitted to me how turned on they get when their partner
gets a little bit aggressive. Flipping the switch on your man and “pinning him
down” or “climbing on top” of him and “doing the work” is like a fantasy in the
making. “Men get turned on when women
get a little animalistic and make maximum pleasure the goal. They take it as a
sign of lust and an indication that she’s as into it as he is,” says Brame,
from Cosmopolitan. In this temporary and often surprise role reversal, your man
will wonder when to pinch himself to wake up from this amazing fantasy.
Let us
know how these tips work for you in your next hot session. Proper foreplay
when done right; can really intensify your overall sexual experience and give
you both a more satisfying orgasm in the end.
